77bb 化解不愉快的方法，是要誠懇、主動、明快， 不要猶豫、被動、等待。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) Here is a method to put an end to unhappiness: be sincere, active, and straightforward; don't be irresolute, passive, and dawdling. - Master Sheng Yen