We hope to have health, happiness, and harmony for ourselves, and we wish that others may have the same. Self-referentiality exists here, but it is very different from selfishness. Such an attitude of benefitting others is known as Bodhi-mind or bodhichitta. 我們希望自己健康、快樂、平安，也希望他人健康、 快樂、平安的這種願心，其中也有自我中心，但與自 私的自我中心不同，乃是利他的菩提心。 - Master Sheng Yen