One who is paranoid is prone to be deceived, one who is understanding is bound to find a helping hand. For richer or poorer, don't hesitate to give, for giving is the key to benefiting oneself, others, and all setient beings. 多心防人易遭鬼，知己知彼逢貴人，富貴貧賤皆布施，自利 利人利眾生。 - Master Sheng Yen