97bb 佔有、奉獻都是愛，但有自利和利人的差別； 佔有是自我貪取的私愛，奉獻是無私喜捨的大愛。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) Love is involved in what you own and what you give to others, but the difference between helping yourself and helping others is that one is a self-directed, possessive love; the other is a selfless, joyous, generous love. - Master Sheng Yen