102bb 以禮讓對方來成就自我， 以尊重對方來化解敵意， 以稱讚對方來增進和諧。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) Set others before you to complete yourself, respect others to put an end to enmity, praise others to encourage harmony. - Master Sheng Yen

 

101bb 做事時多為別人想一想，犯錯時多對自己看一看。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) When you work with others, consider their needs. When you make a mistake, reflect upon your own conduct. - Master Sheng Yen

 

100bb 讓人產生誤解，就是自己的不是。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) If you let other people misunderstand you, it's nobody's fault but your own. - Master Sheng Yen

 

99bb 要有當別人墊腳石的心量， 要有成就他人的胸襟。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) Have the breadth of mind to serve as the stepping stone for another; be the kind of person that truly helps others to be successful. - l Master Sheng Yen

 

98bb 道理是拿來要求自己，不是用來苛求他人。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) Demand right-minded conduct of yourself, do not use it as an excuse to harshly criticize others. - Master Sheng Yen

 

97bb 佔有、奉獻都是愛，但有自利和利人的差別； 佔有是自我貪取的私愛，奉獻是無私喜捨的大愛。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) Love is involved in what you own and what you give to others, but the difference between helping yourself and helping others is that one is a self-directed, possessive love; the other is a selfless, joyous, generous love. - Master Sheng Yen

 

利他，是不求果報及回饋的清淨心。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) Benefiting others takes a pure mind that seeks neither reward nor return. - Master Sheng Yen