肯定自己的優點是自信， 瞭解自己的缺點是成長， 善解他人的立場是尊重。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) Self confidence is recognizing your strong points; growth is knowing your weaknesses; respect is understanding another's position. - Master Sheng Yen

 

105bb 對人付出友誼，伸出援手， 就是在散發和樂平安的光芒。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) Offer friendship and a helping hand to others, and so be a beacon of harmony, happiness, peace and calm. - Master Sheng Yen

 

103bb 放不下自己是沒有智慧，放不下他人是沒有慈悲。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) Unable to let go of attachment to self? No wisdom. Unable to let go of attachment to others? No compassion. - Master Sheng Yen

 

102bb 以禮讓對方來成就自我， 以尊重對方來化解敵意， 以稱讚對方來增進和諧。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) Set others before you to complete yourself, respect others to put an end to enmity, praise others to encourage harmony. - Master Sheng Yen

 

101bb 做事時多為別人想一想，犯錯時多對自己看一看。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) When you work with others, consider their needs. When you make a mistake, reflect upon your own conduct. - Master Sheng Yen

 

100bb 讓人產生誤解，就是自己的不是。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) If you let other people misunderstand you, it's nobody's fault but your own. - Master Sheng Yen

 

99bb 要有當別人墊腳石的心量， 要有成就他人的胸襟。 【聖嚴法師 108 自在語】(第二集) Have the breadth of mind to serve as the stepping stone for another; be the kind of person that truly helps others to be successful. - l Master Sheng Yen