Love is involved in what you own and what you give to others, but the difference between helping yourself and helping others is that one is a self-directed, possessive love; the other is a selfless, joyous, generous love. 佔有、奉獻都是愛，但有自利和利 人的差別；佔有是自我貪取的私愛， 奉獻是無私喜捨的大愛。 - Master Sheng Yen